Since I was a little girl, I was told that to be a good person is to respect the rules. To be a good person is to speak nicely to others. It is to act nicely, it is to behave. Boy have I tried. But the more I grow up, the more I start to wonder what it is that I am. I know what a good person is supposed to look like, I know how a good person should talk and behave. But what about me? Nobody ever taught me to be me. My head was filled with cinderella’s dreams. She wanted a pri